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Hello my name is Monica and i was born in England of Jamaican parentage, and i work as an Administrator for the Civil Service. I would describe myself as confident, open-minded, ambitious and always set goals for whatever i want to achieve in life. I am independant (dont need a man to look after me) and easy going with a good sense of humour.

I prefer to be in the company of people who are cultural, creative and innovative that have a positive outlook on life. Love to talk, especially if the conversation is interesting, challenging and stretches my imagination. I am spiritual but not religious. A deep-thinker, into meditation/yoga and am very much a 'Peaceful Soul' and therefore dislike arguments, so if you are 'The Argumentative Type'.....need i say anymore.

I like most types of music, and if i am stressed or upset, i find that Classical, Opera, Jazz, Blues, Soul or Latino music usually puts me in a good frame of mind. Quiet nights in with that special person are most enjoyable as we can make our own entertainment. But i do like to go out and when i do, i like to step out in style and what could be more delightful than both our dress senses complimenting each other.

I am aiming to become a vegetarian as i believe it to be a more healthier way of eating and have always believed in looking after 'The Body Beautiful', inside and out.

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Biker Preferences

Riding frequencyWeekend warrior
Riding lengthJust around town
Wears a helmetAlways

Appearance

EthnicityBlack
National heritageBritish
BuildCurvy
Height155 cm
Eye ColorBrown
Hair ColorBlack
Hair LengthNeck length
Best featureEyes
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionNo problems

Situation

Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationFriends come over occasionally
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateYes
Have PetsFish
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationCollege Associates
SpecialtyAdministrative / Management
Employment StatusFull-time
Annual income$25,000 - $50,000
Job TitleAdministrator

Leisure & Fun

TV preferencesNews, Documentaries, Dramas, Situation comedies, Movies, Sports
Favorite TV showsLaw & Order:Special Victims Unit, Frasier
Favorite movies typesAction, Science fiction, Comedy, Romance, Drama, Thriller
Favorite moviesThe Terminator, The Shawshank Redemption, The Pursuit of Happyness
Music typesCountry, Classical, Blues, Jazz, Latin, Soul, Reggae, Gospel
Favorite artistsNat King Cole, Barry White, Kenny Rogers
Reading selectionNews, Ancient, Auto-biography, Biography, Fiction, Health, History, Home & Garden, Humor, Mystery, Nature, Religious, Science fiction
Favorite booksIn Light of Truth, The Secret
Idea of funTrying anything new. An all day/night Bar-BQ with family and friends playing musical instruments and it finishes when it finishes.

Relaxing with the curtains drawn, lights out, listening to Classical, Opera or Jazz with only the flicker of the candles to light the room and let the music take you to where ever you want to go.
HobbiesExercising, Arts & Crafts, Sports, Reading, Learning, Music, Movies, Dining, Religion, spirituality, Theater, Travel, Cooking, Gardening, Volunteering

Personality

SmokerDon't smoke
DrinkingOne or two
Social behaviorOutgoing
Friends describe asCool
In High School I was a(n)Quiet one
Sense of humorRaunchy
My great timeHanging out with friends, Trying new things, The movies, Relaxing, Going to a concert
Always wanted to trySki diving, Absailing and Water Skiing

Views

Political viewsI don't like politics
ReligionChristian
Attend religious servicesOnce a year
Goal in lifeTo have my own business, doing what i do best, Dressmaking and Tailoring, as it is the love of my life. Whatever i create is done to the highest standard and i always strive for perfection.

Looking For

Must haveHumor, Great skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Spontaneity, Wit, Thoughtfulness
Look for in a partnerA 'Spiritually Beautiful' Black/Mixed Race or Latino man (age 45-55) with who i can spiritually connect with, looks are not so important as i look for what is within. A confident, positive man with a good sense of humour is a must as i love to laugh and believe laughter is good for the soul. Must believes in god, is not self-centered and thinks the world revolves around him. Is not materialistic and although he is successful at what he does, is humble with it, i love humbleness.

A man that knows when to bow out gracefully when things dont work out and doesnt show himself to be Vindictive, Spiteful and Malicious.

Must be truthful and honest (which is highly essential as i cant stand liars and cheats). Possesses a caring nature and has good moral standards. A man that cares about the environment/green issues. If i could find such a man, i would treat him like a king.

So, if you believe we have anything in common, it would be nice to hear from you, even if it is only as FRIENDS.

My photos are recent, May 2011
On the first dateEnjoying a glass of wine in a bar near the beach with the soft tones of either Classical or Jazz music playing quietly in the background whilst we got to know each other. If it turns out that there is any chemistry between us that could be the basis for the start of something new and exciting.

Sports

Enjoys playingBadminton, Snowboarding, Swimming and Diving, Table Tennis, Tennis, Volleyball
Enjoys watchingAthletics, Bicycling, Football, Football (American), Gymnastics, Swimming and Diving, Volleyball

Exercising Preferences

ExercisesAerobics, Running, Walking, Yoga